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Don't let standard members without a pic contact women In reference to that idea, just because someone does not wish to disclose his or her face should not be seen as an automatic fake profile….. two of my lovers are "shadows" and believe me they are very REAL .. the clue is in the profile itself, the wording, their intent, their actions all together may be indications of a fake or troublemaker  [post 2834794] [post 2827268] Battle Phantoms.....When the Sun Weeps....Life Revisited a poem [post 2625633].....Pygmalions Moonlight Sonata....[post 2625650] [post 2622197].... [post 2344308]
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You will find most Europeans wouldn't agree to confirm ID in America as we don't trust your government with that info One site i'm on for downloading stuff,music films etc i can pay for 48 hours just be a phone call,its some how taken from my phone bill,that may work as in paying a dollar fee as such but then it may cost more to implement this than the dollar its self,too many here using other types of money,euro,ponds etc. Bots are easily deletable,trouble is until your a member for a while on here,most guys don't know there bots, they just see hot young bodies,may be a letter as you sign on telling of this type of behavior and yep an easier way for them to be reported for abuse. The ones who piss me off are the people who make numerous profiles to cause trouble,now there the hard ones to get rid of,they don't die,they just keep coming back,whats a dollar for a bit of fun, and really there the ones to watch out for. I love the idea of pics not being copied once there in your profile,that should be done quicker than most things. Good luck,what ever you do,not every one will be happy as folk just love to complain  I'm a   and i'm here to stay
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5/1/2009 8:08 pm |
Of course, Confirm ID is fine for those of us who have a passport... AND THE WINNER IS ~~~~ [post 2692868]
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 ....what happened to this being about the Fake Profiles & BOTS. Geeeshhh..most of this became more about the rude immature men that email the women... Got to agree~isn't this about BOTs,,, The mail/flirts I can delete,skip over, what ever you want to call it. MY concerns are the one's that 1)STEAL posts,photos,and personal 'peace of mind' 2)Over load the site with FAKEs that waste otherwise good space for REAL members Local Discreet Affairs Parody Of a Real Sex Site
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FXSBOB3...if I could ONLY tell you HOW MANY emails I have gotten calling ME, yes ME, a fake. Why?? BECAUSE I DIDN'T ANSWER THEIR FREAKING FLIRTS AND INVITES!! Not to mention the emails. SO, are you going to say that now "I" should be removed as a fake also? Do you see the point here? IF we can limit HOW someone is reached, the idea of "they are fake" may also be limited down also. I can list you numerous emails stating that "I" am "wasting space on here" and to "get off the site you are fake". AGAIN.. NOT ALL MESSAGES ARE THIS WAY. But so many DO feel that people here are fake based on that they didn't get a reply!!! Did you even read the man that posted he "got another wink from Ghana"?? I have no DOUBT that it is a spammer/scammer looking to get HIS money using the winks as a means to make first contact. How do you know it isn't a BOT using that either?? They use the "super flirt" and hit everyone whether they match cupid settings OR NOT, and in mass, not one at a time. It may not be a bother to you, but numerous others MAY be bothered by it.
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GEE FSXBOB3, I GUESS YOU MISSED MY POST. ALTHOUGH YOU PERSONALLY ARE A SMART ONE AND DON'T CARE ABOUT THOSE FLIRTS/INVITES. I KNOW THAT SO MANY IDIOTS OUT THERE DO FALL FOR EVERY SET OF TITTIES THAT WINK AT THEM AND RUSH TO GET THERE TRULY BELIEVING THAT TATIANA FROM RUSSIA IS IN NEED OF THEIR DICK.. YES THEIR DICK. NO ONE ELSES DICK, THEIR DICK. OUT OF EVERY OTHER PENIS ON THE SITE THEIR DICK WAS THE ONE THAT TATIANA JUST HAD TO HAVE AND THEY RUSH TO FULFILL THE SCAMMER/SPAMMER/BOTS ORDERS WITH THEIR CREDIT CARD BECAUSE THEY WERE TOO FREAKING STUPID TO REALIZE IT IS A RUSE!! NICE TITTIES FROM OVER SEAS FOR ABOUT 95% OF THE TIME IS JUST PLAIN BULLSHIT!! THEY ARE SCAMMERS, FAKES, CHEATING MEN OUT OF MONEY BECAUSE THEY PREY ON THE STUPIDITY OF THE ONES THAT TRULY ARE THAT IGNORANT AS TO FALL FOR IT. FOR EVER 100 FLIRTS THEY SEND OUT, I HAVE TO WONDER HOW MANY IDIOTS REPLY AND RUN WITH THEIR DICK IN HAND AND MONEY FLAILING. FOR SURE I SEE OVER SEAS FLIRT AND 4000 MILES AND THINK.... SCAM SCAM SCAM SCAM SCAM SCAM SCAM SCAM.
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I think some of you missed the point of my last posting here. From what I read with Ryan (Community) topic was about the BOTS and the Fake profiles that these BOTS use to target REAL members by either redirecting them with advertisements of other Adult Oriented Sex websites that are competitors or those that are looking to scam the REAL members out of their money. Sure I can be called a fake too by the REAL Female Members because I won't fuck them because they are horny and want some dick; furthermore, I have in the past. Just not as much as you women have. Unfortunately that is the nature of this site by the way it markets and advertises itself. I an not going to say that the ideas that been presented to Ryan (Community) are not good or excellent ideas. Especially from rdy2try4; however, still several of you women and a few of you men basically hijacked this topic by making it all about YOU and the abusiveness of behavior from the rude ass real members (male and females) of this site with the way they approach YOU and then PERSONALLY INSULT and OFFEND YOU because YOU are NOT INTERESTED in THEM . Those members are NOT THE SAME AS FAKE PROFILES AND\OR BOTS that the topic was about. Quite honestly, changing the way the Cupid Settings are done by adding more options is a great idea; however, that is not going to stop all the abusive emails and etc...it will only reduce it some. As for the original topic at hand on BOTS and Fake scamming (con artist) profiles they will still be an infestation to this site regardless of those cupid settings having filters added to them or not. They will still make their ways in Chat Rooms, Groups, Blogs and etc... and for everyone of YOU that would use the filter settings for your Cupid Settings and etc... there will be others that do not. Many of the REAL MEMBERS on this site travel from state to state and\or country to country. So while you may slow down or prevent personal contact with the BOTS and Fake Profiles through your profile...you will not be preventing them from the forums of this site that you may or might use; such as the Chat Rooms, Groups, Blogs, and etc...; furthermore, nor will you completely prevent the rude ass real members with the way they might approach you in those open forums on this site unless you block them by adding them to your ignore list. Which means you still going to have to deal with those type of real members on this site one way or the other.
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HOW FUNNY, I WILL BE SURE TO TELL TATIANA IN RUSSIA SHE IS REAL AND NOT HERE TO SCAM ANYONE. I DIDN'T KNOW I PERSONALLY DIDN'T LIKE SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T EXIST AND IS A SCAMMER. I THINK YOU ARE MAKING IT ABOUT YOU. BECAUSE WE CAME UP WITH AN ALTERNATIVE IDEA THAT DIDN'T INCLUDE YOURS, AND FOR THE RECORD I AM NOT GIVING A GOLDARNED DOLLAR NOR MY ID TO THIS SITE FOR CONFIRMED ANYTHING, MANY THINK IT IS NOT A GOOD IDEA, YOU WILL JUST HAVE TO REALIZE THAT OTHERS HAVE OTHER IDEAS ALSO. NO ONE IDEA IS GOING TO STOP EVERYTHING, AND THAT INCLUDES YOURS. I AM OFFENDED THAT BECAUSE I SPOKE OUT AND SAID SOMETHING AND IT DIDN'T AGREE WITH YOUR IDEA THAT YOU THINK I AM MAKING IT ABOUT ME OR HIJACKED IT. PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE THE REASON MANY DON'T EVEN WANT TO PARTICIPATE IN THIS SHIT. YOUR WAY OR THE HIWAY AND YOU TAKE THEM TO TASK FOR IT. I COULDN'T HAVE BEEN MORE CLEARER THAT TATIANA FROM RUSSIA AND THAT OTHER STUFF FROM GHANA IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE ABOUT SCAMMERS SCAMMERS SCAMMERS!!! IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THAT THE SCAMMERS CAN'T FORK OVER A DOLLAR OUT OF THE HUNDREDS THEY MAKE TO MAKE FAKE PROFILES AND STILL SEND THE LUSTY FLIRTS THAT JERKS FALL FOR DAILY, YOU REALLY ARE IN THE DARK. BUT HEY, GO AHEAD, INSULT US, WE DIDN'T AGREE WITH YOU. REMEMBER, YOUR OWN WORDS, FOR EVERYONE OF YOU THAT DOES YOUR IDEA THERE ARE STILL GOING TO BE 100'S OF OTHERS THAT DON'T USE YOUR IDEA. SO THERE WILL STILL BE A PROBLEM. YOU CAN'T MAKE EVERYONE CONFORM AND HAVING ALTERNATIVE IDEAS IN PLACE AS BACKUPS, WELL EVERY LITTLE BIT HELPS, EVEN IF IT ISN'T YOUR FREAKING IDEA. I HAD NO PERSONAL AGENDA HERE OTHER THAN HELPING OUT. I AM QUITE SURE TATIANA HAS MADE TONS OF MONEY FROM THE REAL MEMBERS HERE WITH HER ALURING FLIRTS AND TAKING THEM TO OTHER SITES AS NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY SHE IS A FUCKING FAKE AND A SCAMMER!! BECAUSE A FEW OF US LIKE AN IDEA DOESN'T MEAN WE HIJACKED ANYTHING. INSULTS ARE FUTILE AND CHILDISH.
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Isn't the subject BOTS and SCAMMERS??? Oh,FYI~I read Every post! Local Discreet Affairs Parody Of a Real Sex Site
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community replies on 5/1/2009 7:29 pm: I'm sending an email about this so I can comfortably go into detail about what my specific concerns are and what I know to a practice of inappropriate storage of CC information. The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.
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HOW FUNNY, I WILL BE SURE TO TELL TATIANA IN RUSSIA SHE IS REAL AND NOT HERE TO SCAM ANYONE. I DIDN'T KNOW I PERSONALLY DIDN'T LIKE SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T EXIST AND IS A SCAMMER. I THINK YOU ARE MAKING IT ABOUT YOU. BECAUSE WE CAME UP WITH AN ALTERNATIVE IDEA THAT DIDN'T INCLUDE YOURS, AND FOR THE RECORD I AM NOT GIVING A GOLDARNED DOLLAR NOR MY ID TO THIS SITE FOR CONFIRMED ANYTHING, MANY THINK IT IS NOT A GOOD IDEA, YOU WILL JUST HAVE TO REALIZE THAT OTHERS HAVE OTHER IDEAS ALSO. NO ONE IDEA IS GOING TO STOP EVERYTHING, AND THAT INCLUDES YOURS. I AM OFFENDED THAT BECAUSE I SPOKE OUT AND SAID SOMETHING AND IT DIDN'T AGREE WITH YOUR IDEA THAT YOU THINK I AM MAKING IT ABOUT ME OR HIJACKED IT. PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE THE REASON MANY DON'T EVEN WANT TO PARTICIPATE IN THIS SHIT. YOUR WAY OR THE HIWAY AND YOU TAKE THEM TO TASK FOR IT. I COULDN'T HAVE BEEN MORE CLEARER THAT TATIANA FROM RUSSIA AND THAT OTHER STUFF FROM GHANA IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE ABOUT SCAMMERS SCAMMERS SCAMMERS!!! IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THAT THE SCAMMERS CAN'T FORK OVER A DOLLAR OUT OF THE HUNDREDS THEY MAKE TO MAKE FAKE PROFILES AND STILL SEND THE LUSTY FLIRTS THAT JERKS FALL FOR DAILY, YOU REALLY ARE IN THE DARK. BUT HEY, GO AHEAD, INSULT US, WE DIDN'T AGREE WITH YOU. REMEMBER, YOUR OWN WORDS, FOR EVERYONE OF YOU THAT DOES YOUR IDEA THERE ARE STILL GOING TO BE 100'S OF OTHERS THAT DON'T USE YOUR IDEA. SO THERE WILL STILL BE A PROBLEM. YOU CAN'T MAKE EVERYONE CONFORM AND HAVING ALTERNATIVE IDEAS IN PLACE AS BACKUPS, WELL EVERY LITTLE BIT HELPS, EVEN IF IT ISN'T YOUR FREAKING IDEA. I HAD NO PERSONAL AGENDA HERE OTHER THAN HELPING OUT. I AM QUITE SURE TATIANA HAS MADE TONS OF MONEY FROM THE REAL MEMBERS HERE WITH HER ALURING FLIRTS AND TAKING THEM TO OTHER SITES AS NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY SHE IS A FUCKING FAKE AND A SCAMMER!! BECAUSE A FEW OF US LIKE AN IDEA DOESN'T MEAN WE HIJACKED ANYTHING. INSULTS ARE FUTILE AND CHILDISH. 1- You have some real issues. In no way was I insulting anyone here with my view and opinion. 2- Next time you say "remember your words" try not twisting the words around of the other person or at the least quote them on it. 3- If anything I complimented the ideas, but at the same time being factual in the matter with criticism and objectiveness. I simply pointed out the downside of the idea. Why not take the criticism and objectiveness and improve upon the idea constructively instead of being confrontational because you became offended by someone that opposes that it will solve the problem?
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You know what Dude... 1- You have some real issues. In no way was I insulting anyone here with my view and opinion. 2- Next time you say "remember your words" try not twisting the words around of the other person or at the least quote them on it. 3- If anything I complimented the ideas, but at the same time being factual in the matter with criticism and objectiveness. I simply pointed out the downside of the idea. Why not take the criticism and objectiveness and improve upon the idea constructively instead of being confrontational because you became offended by someone that opposes that it will solve the problem? Have you read 'turtles' profile or his~ Oh thats right he doesn't have a blog... Local Discreet Affairs Parody Of a Real Sex Site
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Have you read 'turtles' profile or his~ Oh thats right he doesn't have a blog...
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HAHAHA PLEASE GO CHECK THE IP. YOUR BEING PARANOID NOW. BUT NOW YOU HAVE HIJACKED THIS ENTIRE BLOG TO BE A PERSONAL FIGHT. I AM CONFIDENT IN WHO I AM AND THAT I DON'T HAVE MULTIPLE PROFILES. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU PROVED OUTRIGHT WRONG ON THIS SO PEOPLE CAN SEE IT. RYAN, I AM SORRY THIS IS HAPPENING IN YOUR BLOG, BUT PLEASE, CHECK MY IP AND LET THEM KNOW WHAT IT IS. I AM THAT CONFIDENT.
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HAHAHA PLEASE GO CHECK THE IP. YOUR BEING PARANOID NOW. BUT NOW YOU HAVE HIJACKED THIS ENTIRE BLOG TO BE A PERSONAL FIGHT. I AM CONFIDENT IN WHO I AM AND THAT I DON'T HAVE MULTIPLE PROFILES. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU PROVED OUTRIGHT WRONG ON THIS SO PEOPLE CAN SEE IT. RYAN, I AM SORRY THIS IS HAPPENING IN YOUR BLOG, BUT PLEASE, CHECK MY IP AND LET THEM KNOW WHAT IT IS. I AM THAT CONFIDENT. 1. Turn off the caps, it means your "yelling" in your response and that's just rude behavior. It's uncalled for. That and I find it physically difficult to read and take serious. 2. There's three pages of comments here and it's not all about you. Everyone here has been respectful of each other up until you started having your temper tantrum. 3. You accuse others of being dismissive about your ideas and in the same breath dismiss someone else's idea in the exact same way. You get back what you put out. 4. Don't get confrontational here and then cry foul because some will not tolerate that behavior and are willing to stand up and say so. 5. Ryan isn't here to play Mommy by refereeing disagreements and picking a more valid "winner". Poor guy has enough on his hands - it's not his responsibility to validate your account. If you don't like it that some people feel you're not on the up and up - that's your problem, not Ryan's. 6. Yes, there's always going to be scammers on websites like this. That doesn't mean that the site should sit back and just allow them to run buck wild. It's called exercising due diligence to protect members and their personal information. Last but not least. No one accused you of being a hacker. There are real and serious concerns about the security of personal information. I and others, certainly didn't use a pre-paid credit cards because of you personally. The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.
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Just curious~How many here read the blog post from the member that had her profile and photos STOLEN and found her PERSONAL INFO posted on twitter????????????????????????????????????????????????? Isn't stopping BOTS and FAKES what we are discussing on this post... Local Discreet Affairs Parody Of a Real Sex Site
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Having a couple or several of profiles does not define or constitutes an individual as a "fake". So please do not be making an accusation that I said tooshay_turtle is a "fake" because I did not. I made a factual point that many of you individuals did not like in concerns to what this topic was about and also to the ideas presented that did not relate to the BOTS and those Fake profiles that scammers use... I guess giving my opinion that is different and opposes some of yours makes me out to be as the "bad guy" here and gives a member(s) the rights to start insulting me and twisting my words posted here around. Well excuse me... but  "The Controversial One"-Nick just ain't that way to taking it from anyone on this site or in my everyday life off this site for that matter.I been a member of this site longer then most any of you have been. And I am not ignorant when it comes to the psychology and psychological games played by some people (members) thinking that it will work on someone or everyone in manipulating their thought patterns and comprehension within conversations (postings). If you think I am a fool not knowing that many of you are a little clique of members that will "gang up" on another member because you do not agree with them or that they do not agree with you or someone from your inner circle and etc...you are most definitely wrong. The paper trails do not lie that members leave behind them. If you think I am a fool not knowing that members will support another member with use of the "votes" whether the member is right or wrong; you are wrong again. It is a pattern that is seen all so often. Believe me when I say... I do know what does go on behind the scenes with cliques of members; furthermore, I was once associated with a few of them in the past and know how they will and do operate together to either get the attention of others, defame or discredit another individual(s) posting(s) or to achieve a personal agenda of what they want. I learned of that in the Advice Lines, Article sections and Groups quite very well...thank you. All any of you would have to do is click on that number of the postings under tooshay_turtle and see the coincidence of the same members in each and everyone of those postings all the way up to this one of Ryan (Community) Blog; in addition, you will find similarities within the format of text in those postings as well to other members without a photo. I find it quite interesting that a member of this site since July 8, 2007 has only 19 Blog postings, no group postings, no magazine postings or other. Also supposedly a 27 year old male with a profile description that reads "I'm too young, too far away, too nice and too inexperienced for you. Why am I here?". That is way to far out of the ordinary for a 27 year old man that is 6'2" to basically be telling women that read his profile that they would not be interested in him or he has nothing to offer to them on a site of this nature. So Yes...I made the personal speculations and assumption the individual uses multiple profiles; furthermore, it is my rights to do so. With the experience I have gained on this site over the years being actively involved in many of the forums of it and looking at the way the Votes are tallied up on certain members without comment and then doing a paper trail check I see nothing but manipulations of the voting here the same as I have seen in the Advice Lines, Article Sections and even the Events contests. My sincere apology to you for the way this topic turned out because of my perception and comments of opinion of what this topic was seemingly suppose to be about (BOTS and Fake Profiles that scam members) and the opposing opinion to the ideas and suggestions that were made. I am just not one to sit back and take blows of insults and disrespect or see my words twisted around by anyone to be something other then what I had written. I offered my personal honest opinion to the issues of the topic brought up; I did not intend on arguing with someone because my opinion and theirs are different. I respected every member that posted here; furthermore, I still stand by my words of my personal opinion that this topic was "hijacked" because of a totally different issue then the BOTS and the Fake Profiles used to scamming members. I do not see the correlation of some man emailing some woman profile telling her how he wants to screw her and her saying no and that male member replying back with insults to the rejection as being about Fake profiles and BOTS. I have said all I am going to say in concerns to this topic. M♥L4U-Nick
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Sorry that you're so over sensitive - didn't rip anyone a new asshole over caps. You don't know me and I don't know you. Trust me, if I rip someone a new asshole - it's not as mild as a direct statement and the kind of thing that gets me banned. The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.
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This is my last post to this.... I personally was NOT complaining about emails. MY idea was to cut down on 'SCAMMERS/SPAMMERS/FAKES LURING MEN TO THEM TO GET THEM TO ANOTHER SITE' by the means of using the FLIRTS and/or INVITES as so many do seriously think that because a flirt was sent they 'must' be interested and off they go to see the profiles including and not limited to Ghana/Russian/Hungarian/whateveran countries they come from. Those 'scammers/spammers/fakes etc... ARE luring men to view them, then click on other things to go to other sites with the promise of 'more'. I am fully aware it is NOT going to remove 'all' of the problem. However, it is a big problem as many have noted and seriously, having an opt out choice 'may' actually help cut down on it as the 'scammers/spammers/fakes' using the superflirts in mass sendings and flirts period will be blocked by those that 'choose' to use it there by cutting down on their ability to reach some. Again, this had nothing to do with 'rude emails'. I can't make that more clear than this. Fake/scammer spams flirts... person contacts... scammer then says "oh I need you to do this" and they do it... hence LURING them to the pay for porn site or something else that will get them to send money. (all in caps only to stress what the point is, not yelling.... and now packing my bag for the Ghana party. Going with Ryan.. xoxox)
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Good one, luv. Agreed. Webcam is a way to confirm the person is who there are as show on their profile which I had thought before.
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Good one, luv. Agreed. Webcam is a way to confirm the person is who there are as show on their profile which I had thought before. I just don't feel that you can judge whether someone is a scammer based on whether they're willing to put on a cam or not. It still won't stop some of them because as it is now, they're saying you have to go to another paid site and citing technical reasons and glitches for why they can't show their cam here. "oh my cam doesn't work on this site" I'm still in support of some kind of "confirmation" process but I do recognize there's problems with it and acknowledge the damned good points made against it. In the end it may come down to closing all loopholes that allow these individuals to to spam the crap out of everyone (messages, flirts and hotlists) and reminding members to use their common sense. As for my allegedly "harsh" statements. I stand behind it. I'm not going to start posting in a manner inconsistent with my personality in a post about fakes. I'm not going to get into a fight with someone because they don't like how I express myself. I've said all I have to say about that issue. The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.
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The only answer I have is to make it that if you are not a paid member with out a ID verification you cannot e mail or invite people....
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It's not that I disagree with this. It *is* a good way to confirm that someone is the person they're claiming to be in pictures (or in a profile becuz some who cam don't even post pix) I just don't feel that you can judge whether someone is a scammer based on whether they're willing to put on a cam or not. It still won't stop some of them because as it is now, they're saying you have to go to another paid site and citing technical reasons and glitches for why they can't show their cam here. "oh my cam doesn't work on this site" I'm still in support of some kind of "confirmation" process but I do recognize there's problems with it and acknowledge the damned good points made against it. In the end it may come down to closing all loopholes that allow these individuals to to spam the crap out of everyone (messages, flirts and hotlists) and reminding members to use their common sense. As for my allegedly "harsh" statements. I stand behind it. I'm not going to start posting in a manner inconsistent with my personality in a post about fakes. I'm not going to get into a fight with someone because they don't like how I express myself. I've said all I have to say about that issue.
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5/5/2009 4:34 pm |
ohh really? ok
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