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Nude - to be or not to be... that is the question.  

wittywoman 54F
779 posts
12/26/2009 11:13 pm
Nude - to be or not to be... that is the question.


Anybody remember The Newlywed game?

For those who do not: This was a televised game show that was on when I was a where newlyweds would compete for prizes by proving how much they knew about their new spouse.

I remember one particular questions incredibly well; even after all these years.

The question was "Does your wife look sexier with clothes on or off". The Wives had to guess what answer the Husbands would give. Then the Husbands had to answer honestly and find out if that matched what the Wife guessed. The couple that matched both said she looked sexier dressed.

I was shocked at this question. I was probably 8 or 9 years old and just beginning to understand attraction but aren't all people sexier in the nude? In my mind you couldn't have sex unless you were naked therefore you were sexy when naked.

Of course I'm all grown up now. There are many people (men and women) who are sexy nude but I can state I have always felt sexier with lingerie on (a teddy usually). Someone recently pointed out that the lingerie is sexiest when dropped to the floor but it got me to wondering...

Are you sexier nude or slightly dressed?

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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
12/26/2009 11:27 pm

agree...i always felt sexier with some type of clothing...not totally nude...

the anticipation....right???


wittywoman replies on 12/26/2009 11:29 pm:
Hey, look who it is?!?

Thanks for stopping by and yes the anticipation has got to be alluring. Like they have something yet to unwrap.

oldirtybacchus 103M
9536 posts
12/27/2009 12:04 am

IMO women can be just as sexy with or without clothes.

It depends on:

1. How they carry themselves, posture, movement etc.
2. How well they dress to flatter themselves.
3. Attitude - confidence and comfort in their naked or clothed state.
(more facial expressions)

I tend to find very, very skinny women, more sexy with clothes on for some reason and I love undressing one another as part of foreplay.

Lingerie doesn't really turn me on personally, but if a woman feels she's sexier in it, I like anything that helps with that.

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wittywoman replies on 12/27/2009 2:42 pm:
I agree with undressing each other being foreplay though I do like to strip for a guy sometimes, its another way to tease I guess.

I never really thought about my facial expressions though. All too often my lover's eyes are elsewhere and not on my face so it isn't something I think about.

The softness/silkiness of lingerie flowing against my skin is where the sexiness comes in. Now if I had a pair of soft hands instead...

tazzerman2000 66M
18912 posts
12/27/2009 5:36 am

Wow interesting question/topic. I guess it really all depends upon the situation. There's almost NOTHING sexier for me than a woman in a black cocktail dress and high heels. I just LOVE that look and well SHWING! But on the other hand, I also think that a woman lying naked on my bed after we've spent hours making love is just sexier than hell. I'd vote for everything in between also btw

I do love a woman who FEELS sexy and if lingerie makes you feel that way then I'll alllll for it.. -tm

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wittywoman replies on 12/27/2009 2:29 pm:
Well feel free to run your hands all over me and see if I FEEL sexy! I know that's not what you meant but when hands are exploring me I feel incredibly sexy no matter what I'm wearing or not wearing.

I know, I'll wear hands!

crystalhawk2 53M/55F

12/27/2009 7:08 pm

Good question I think a woman wearing a mans button down shirt and nothing else is sexiest thing to see.


wittywoman replies on 12/29/2009 7:36 pm:
And feel too. And smell and... damn now I need a man's shirt!

lostlighthouse1 54M

12/27/2009 8:04 pm

Half dressed.....


wittywoman replies on 12/29/2009 7:04 pm:
So I see... the one you took with your hand down your pants - I liked that too, maybe sexyness is somewhere in between being dressed and the suggestion of getting undressed?

rm_ulikme2plz 65F
948 posts
12/28/2009 10:19 pm

At this age especially, I think I am better slightly dressed, but when I was younger, my man friends said I was definately better nude.(and I still can't understand why Victoria's Secret doesn't really market to my age group)

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wittywoman replies on 12/29/2009 7:06 pm:
I appreciate you stopping by!

I agree - Victoria's Secret has completely forgotten which age group has more money to spend. They are going for quantity of purchases rather than quality of the purchase. Fredericks is even worse! I think we're going to have to make our own stuff instead!

husboredshare 60M

12/29/2009 9:18 pm

Sadly, about the same ... LOL


wittywoman replies on 12/29/2009 10:19 pm:
Hey just goes to show you - Barbie does not live here! We are all real people.

fenris_call 49M
10587 posts
12/30/2009 12:09 pm

I love a little lingerie. Imagination heightens the moment IMO. Anyone can strip but well chosen lingerie tells your partner you put some thought into it.

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wittywoman replies on 12/30/2009 8:59 pm:
VERY nice way to put it - well chosen lingerie can invoke so much...

I like your IMO's by the way... keep 'em up!

iwant2lickuthere 56M
3537 posts
12/30/2009 1:17 pm

You know that's funny. I recently had this conversation with someone and I told them my thoughts about lingerie. The best way to see if it looks good, is how it looks lying on the floor. If it's in a ring on the floor, like you just stepped out of it, there's a long slow night ahead. If its thrown in the corner with maybe a strap torn then its going to be a hard workout tonight.

Then again it all depends on the person wearing the outfit. A woman who is confident in herself, body, sexuality, mind, etc. That is very sexy indeed. Then you go and throw some stockings and a garter belt...


wittywoman replies on 12/30/2009 8:58 pm:
Yeah but how do the stockings and garter belt look thrown on the floor?

And what if the lingerie is thrown in the corner but nothing is torn? Does that mean it will start out slow and build into a nice workout? I kinda like that.

Gr8ful_G 61M

12/31/2009 10:31 pm

I must agree with Crystalhawk that a woman wearing a man's button-down shirt and nothing else showing is incredibly sexy.Expecially if it's one of my shirts she's wearing.

Other than that I think that attitude has more to do with sexy than the clothes or the lack there of.If you feel sexy and confident then you look sexy, you smell sexy and you exude sexy through every pore of your body. If it takes lingerie to make you feel that way then you will be more sexy in lingerie.

And onthe flip side, what about men? Do they look better naked or clothed and if clothed, in what?


wittywoman replies on 1/6/2010 7:45 pm:
I think most men look best in nothing but a towel! But that's just me...

gguuuurrrrrlll 33F

1/29/2010 11:11 pm

being naked is great


SexyPop_suckle 50F

1/31/2010 7:10 pm

Its the whole shabang for me, the getting ready deciding what to where (how easy it is to get off) Lol , Everything from the clothes lingerie even the shoe's/boots,(Boots)I like my boots. When i make a real effort and do the hair,put a bit of make up on,have my nails done i feel alot sexier and more confident, its the full package !
As for the man i think a man who looks smart and cares about his appearance does it for me.
At the end of the evening when it comes to undressing each other is when the fun begins , Undoing the belt on his trousers as while dropping to her knees
Then in the morning pulling on his oversized shirt with the faint smell of aftershave and nothing elsex


wittywoman replies on 1/31/2010 11:51 pm:
Very nice imagery and oh so true too! Thanks for stopping by!

jetli64 59M

2/5/2010 5:28 pm

I feel that a woman with just a little clothing on is sexier than totally nude.


wittywoman replies on 2/5/2010 6:47 pm:
It often feels sexier on the skin too. To have something on that must be pulled across the skin to remove. Hmmmm.

Thanks for dropping by!

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