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New Couples.  

sg_mc1976 48M/48F
258 posts
9/25/2010 6:59 pm
New Couples.
There's quite a number of guys contacting us, asking how to get their wife into swinging. We're really not qualified to answer this - having swung only a few times. So I hope senior swingers do correct me if i'm wrong or if you have anything to add, please do so.

Personally, I feel that swinging is an extention of your own sex life. It is not an alternative or a way to try another woman without being labelled as a cheat. Nor should it be viewed as a compromise or sacrifice to please your partner.

Discussion is the key. Swinging is an intimate act where emotions and jealousy should not exist. Its just pure sexual fun with no attachment whatsoever.

Swinging is the real world so be confident of yourself. Not everyone is perfect like the pornstar u watch. So keep your expectation realistic. More often, swingers u meet looks like ordinary people u meet everyday on the way to work. What's important is the idea of meeting likeminded (horny)people.

Meeting new swingers may not nessarily end up with you guys having sex. Take the first step ,meet and talk to the new couple over drinks or dinner and then go home and discuss with your partner if u're both comfortable to meet again for a more intimate session. That way, no one is pressed to make any decisions. Take things slow.

So couples, do DISCUSS first of all the pros and cons with your own partner. Make sure you know what to expect and know your limits. Most importantly adhere to the swinging etiqutte.

Swinging as a couple eliminates the need to cheat. It brings a couple closer as they can share everything together - not just the roof over their head. There's no need for secrets or lies.

Remember - A couple that swings together Stays together.

PS : google" what-is-swinging " for a more professional FAQ and swinging etiqutte.

We are still learing too

Have fun swinging everyone!
Honeydewy 47F  
3230 posts
3/6/2011 11:12 pm

 Wonderful... have put your blog link in my profile. Thank you two, him/her for having the patience to elucidate what swinging is about and the psychology behind it. There's nothing I disagree with.
Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.


Honeydewy 47F  
3230 posts
3/6/2011 11:15 pm

 Oh yea,.. i was initially attracted by the pic,.. got my juices flowing with those pink cotton innocent-looking panties.

Then I got hooked in by the blog entry. But really, really great pics! ^_^ maybe i should start doing what you're doin' on my own pics in my blog, but they're quite dispersed, hope you won't be asking for a face pic.
Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.


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