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Mea culpa  

gottaring 52F
10306 posts
11/3/2015 6:21 am
Mea culpa

I suck, I know.

I come and I go with my weak double-entendres, and am as predictable as a syphillis outbreak and twice as hard to explain.

You guys are pretty fucking cool though, you know that? You hang in there, you email to check up on me, you leave me supportive comments even though I'm never around. I owe you guys, big time. THANK YOU {=}

So anyway, here's my two-cent synopsis of the past few months...

1. Still taking classes and learning a TON! I've been doing a little business out of my home, but I'm keeping it pretty small. I also contracted with a local high-end caterer to be their pastry chef when they need me. It allows me the freedom to set my own hours and still be around for hubby and the kiddos, so it's an ideal situation.

2. I'm still on Twitter, but not advertising my username here since some dumb asses decided to find me and leave public comments about "following me on Local Discreet Affairs". Idiots.

3. Nothing has changed with hubby. We're going on a three year stretch of ZERO sex. How am I surviving? I eat a lot, lol.

4. Still friends with THAT GUY, still seeing him when time allows. We're in a comfortable place now and it's good. Not what I ideally want, but good nonetheless.

5. I am ass-over-elbow smitten with a man I've chatted with on Twitter. He's WAY WAY WAY out of my league, though. We're supposed to meet on the 21st and I'm TERRIFIED. I'll keep you posted, but don't get your hopes up , Lord knows I'm not.

6. Here's a face pic taken last week...I look pretty much the same...



So...that's the skinny around here for now. What's going on in your neck of the woods? Gimme the gossip...

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
4/13/2016 2:58 pm

GOOD


lucius8858 65M
847 posts
11/21/2015 8:13 pm

You have such beautiful eyes! Sorry about your husbands lack of need for sex.....I went through it with my wife, thankfully we are separated and working on the divorce! If I had a woman that looked like you, I would be all over you everyday!
Luc

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EnchantedViolet 59F
2795 posts
11/10/2015 4:13 pm

I have missed your voice, my dear. I hope you can come back and grace us with your presence and wit, maybe at least semi-regularly.

And no one, and I mean no one, is out of your league.

EnchantedViolet... the Garden is in bloom again
Thou Shalt Not Fuck Thy Neighbor


Cechute 60M
88 posts
11/6/2015 5:09 pm

Great to see a post from you. You're gorgeous and your personality, online at least makes no one out of your league.


Silvervoices 65F  
28 posts
11/6/2015 10:12 am

In a nutshell, missed you and your quick wit, gorgeous cake pics, and wit! Glad you stopped by!


GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
11/4/2015 4:13 am

gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 5:43 pm:
You don't "normally crack wise"?

Who the fuck are you kidding . That's exactly why I adore you .

I don't crack wise about body image stuff.

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


srkaficionada 70F

11/4/2015 12:59 am

Good to see you! How do you even chat on that site with 140 characters or less? Is there like private chat functions?

You're pretty and smart. How exactly are you out of someone's league? He doesn't think so since you're meeting.


OldDinosaur23 61M
893 posts
11/3/2015 7:15 pm

Glad to hear things are, if not great, at least passable...?

I'm sorry about the hubby - you still have a few months to go before you catch up to me, though. I wish we could trade spouses: the two who want intimacy could be together, and the two that don't... well, wouldn't.

Yeah, I know, I would never trade. I happen to love her. I just wish we could see eye-to-eye on this.

I'm glad you've reached a comfortable place with THAT GUY. And, believe it or not, the new guy you ar going to meet is not out of your league - you determine together what is and is not in your respective leagues, and see what you can do together. Don't shoot it down before it starts.


dan_nl_2006 42M
1117 posts
11/3/2015 6:31 pm

Hello
You look beautiful. Im a new visitor your blog seems very interesting.
3 years does sound like a long time... not sure what is the reason for "no sex" with hubby.

About the twitter guy, just one advise whether you think you can or you can not either way you are right. good luck hope you find what you are looking for.


JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
11/3/2015 5:25 pm

Looking lovely!

Out of your league?! C'mon, who're you trying to kid? The dude may have tons of beautiful and intelligent women around him, but it doesn't seem like he's paying them any mind. He might be looking for more substance. Anyhoo, hope the meet goes well!

I'm on an isle where a vast majority of men prefer the itty bitty Asian chicks, which I clearly am not. Having a grand time looking for the elusive needle in a haystack . . . Not

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
11/3/2015 4:34 pm

It's always a pleasure to read what you've been up to. Okay, you haven't changed much but I'm not complaining
I've been caring for my mum but at the moment she is in respite care at a nursing home.


hornyguyMN 43M
16352 posts
11/3/2015 1:51 pm

Good luck with the meet up. Let's see what the skinny here.

1. Went to a Zumba class this weekend and was pissed at myself because it used to be easy.

2. Same thing with my dating live. No dates in about a year and a half though I do have a friend helping me with my OCK profile.

3. Same crap with my sex life. Nothing in three and a half years. Meaning I still need to break in my new apartment.

But there is a new episode of The Flash on tonight and that is awesome.


gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 2:37 pm:
Okay- at least you're taking a Zumba class. That right there puts you MILES ahead of me, lol.

RideACowboy3021 62M
820 posts
11/3/2015 1:11 pm

Glad to hear things are going okay for you. I understand what it's like getting no sex from your significant other. 3 years now... at least I have had one evening of GREAT sex in the last couple of years, but it's just not enough.

Women on here are so spoiled that an average guy has really no chance. I'm thinking of just walking away... you asked once after a blogger bash if I would sleep with a woman like you. Answer is still the same... lucky bastards who get the chance!

Be well,
Your Cowboy!

Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!


gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 2:42 pm:
Do you have any idea how many times I've sent a flirt, written an email or tried to IM and received no response? It goes both ways, Love. I don't think the women here are "spoiled". I think the men have just become apathetic and distrustful because they've been burned by bots and fakes too many times. It makes it very hard for real women to shine through.

GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
11/3/2015 9:36 am

You KNOW I don't normally crack wise in THIS particular way, but you set it up and I can't resist. My apologies.

It's awfully rich; a pastry chef who eats a lot talking about the skinny around anywhere. haha
{br]You gave me your Twitterhandle once before, and I've done nothing with it. Forgive me. Give it to me again on my private post, please, as I can no longer read my emails.

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 2:43 pm:
You don't "normally crack wise"?

Who the fuck are you kidding . That's exactly why I adore you .

daVinci58 65M
1364 posts
11/3/2015 9:25 am

Always great to see that lovely smile and those 'hypnotically' beautiful eyes! Great to hear that your classes are going well and you're 'in demand' as much as you'd like! Post a photo of your 'latest' creation(s) for us to admire and salivate over! Out of your league... I think not! Do the meet with your unquestionable beauty and confidence! Take care and have a great day and week!


gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 2:45 pm:
Sweet DaVinci . Thank you for your vote of confidence. I wish i believed in myself as much as you believe in me, lol.

As for my cakes, I'll be sure to post some soon!

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
11/3/2015 8:30 am

How can the dude be outta your league my sweet? Was he raised on Mount Olympus?

Thoughts from the Garden...


gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 2:48 pm:
He's almost perfect. Dimples and sweet brown eyes, lol. Descended from Mt. Olympus, no. But he's surrounded by so many beautiful women that I may as well be from Mars.

Cave_Crawler 59M/59F
86 posts
11/3/2015 6:45 am

The way I see it, you see the size of the ballpark psych yourself up and go for the home run. If you start out thinking it's out of your league you'll never make the homer and only be stuck with a bunch of fouls and first basers. Get ready for the homer don't think your less and your first impression will make him think HE'S not enough for you. A friend of mine once told me, "It's not the size you have when you stand in a line and some teenagers start pushing people, it's the way you stand your position and look at them that will make them stop and think twice when they reach you..." Also, the same way animals can "smell fear" people sense it in people, NO FEAR!! See ya...


ERoosevelt 55F
299 posts
11/3/2015 6:39 am

I'm sorry for your hubby situation. I went years with no sex too, until divorcing at 20 years; no sex and divorce both suck, btw. Glad you're able to satisfy yourself elsewhere. If you're a good person, is ANYONE really out of your league? Lot's of luck!


gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 2:50 pm:
I never believed in the concept of "leagues" until now. And as good a person as I may be, it does me no good when he's surrounded by tons of other good people who are beautiful and intelligent as well. I may mess this up (and I'm pretty sure I already have), but I'll go down swinging .

Wanton_Wench2 62F  
1027 posts
11/3/2015 6:35 am

, Meet the guy, pluck up all the courage and give it try, if it doesn't work out, at least you tried,
If it does work out, we would of course like a full report
Play safe

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gottaring replies on 11/3/2015 2:51 pm:
Thanks for the vote of confidence!! And as far as playing safe? ALWAYS in all ways .

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