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Banned for Lying...I am innoncent
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Banned for Lying...I am innoncent I have waited about 10 days to calm down and write logically what happened and vent about it hopefully rationally. Went into the room of a person who used to be a very good and close friend, won't go into what happened but that friendship hit some rocky ground. To be honest, if I had heard the explanation given for an incident that happened I might not believe it either. Just a minute, we were good friends and always were honest with each other, so yes if I had been in their place I would have believed my explanation. Anyway I digress, went into the room and started talking with the people in the room, I admit I brought up the subject of Isis and terrorists in general. We had a serving military man and I mentioned my family had at least one member of each generation in the military especially when Oz was called upon to go to war. Also mentioned I had been in the military as well as had my husband and presently there were four members of our family serving 3 deployed overseas and one in Canberra. Spoke about how a minority of radicalised Muslims especially a few Imam's were spreading hatred and mesmerising some of our young to that they left our shores to fight what they thought was a jihad only to die thousands of miles from their homeland and family. I also said that I thought in these days of technology why could not chat rooms be used to give information to terrorists. It might be silly but I mentioned it to another family member who is a serving politician (yes we all have a black sheep in our family). I asked what the other chatters thought...The next minute the words Liar, I have met so many people like you who bait people get out of the room and never come back you make me sick. I would like to answer those accusations: I do not lie, even when in the past if has gotten me into trouble. I may at times refrain from answering if I feel it would hurt someone especially if they were a friend. I do not bait people, and in this instance I have no idea what I was baiting them about... what I do here is chat, flirt and tease people I know in the rooms. I never do it in a cruel or rude way, I always try and be upbeat and friendly. Was I supposed o be lying about my family, No-way, I am so proud of my ancestors who before we came to Australia and Lived in Ireland, Scotland, Wales, France, and yes even England. Went to war to defend their homeland and did it with courage and sacrifice. My husband was Military, as was I in the medical corps, and I am proud and honoured I was able to assist my fellow aussies. The present generation also represents our extended family in different branches of our military, they are wonderful, intelligent, hard working young people. I was terribly upset and emailed the owner/friend and asked them if they wanted me to leave. the answer was yes, they had to think what was best for the room and did not like drama. I left, I tried to email the person who railed at me trying to find out what I had said to cause that reaction only to find I had been banned. Is it the first time I have been banned, NO, is it the last room I will be banned from, who knows.... is this time I feel I have been unfairly banned, yes I certainly do. I do not know what this person considered the lie - lies to be, was I given a chance to defend myself no. Am I disappointed in my friend, I am not sure, sad yes, do I still like them yes, as they are a caring, intelligent, articulate person who normally is very fair with their dealings. Why have I not mentioned the name of the room or the owner, because that would be unfair of me, maybe giving people a bad opinion of the room and the owner and th4ey do not deserve that, the room is safe, and free of trolls. I wish the person and yes I still call them a friend, the best and hope their room flourishes and continues grow. Only one suggestion.... because you may have feelings for a person do not automatically take them side unless they can prove their accusations. There I have had my vent, and the last of the hurt has gone....  
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My dear Lady , Let me start by saying TY for your Service to your Country . Being Ex Navy here I know the pride you have for doing so .. As for your issue here .... it seems to me that either the person in question didn't want to hear your thoughts about ISIS and took offense to your bringing it up , or they may have misunderstood something you said ... If they were (are) a true friend they would have given you a chance to explain your side after hearing theirs . But since neither of those things happened . It may be that they weren't the friend you thought .... with that in mind it may be best to just move on and leave this in the past where it belongs ..... Sorry you are going through this and wish you all the best of luck in getting this taken care of ... Hope you have a wonderful day and life ...... Be Safe ..... Visit My Blog JohnWheels101 Friendship is a Treasure that can't Be Bought or Sold Feel free to Add Me
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Thank you for your kind comments John... The vent was my way of putting it behind me and moving on. It was also my recognition that once a friendship no longer has trust, it cannot be repaired and so wrap it up in silk, and carefully put it away, so every now and again you can bring it out and remember the good times and none of the bad. Loreli 
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your very welcome my dear .. I hope it all works out for you ... If you want to please feel free to add me as your friend ..... yeah I am one of the strange guys that will actually listen to my friends and do whatever is needed to help them in anyway I can ... the nice guys like me get the short end of the stick as they say .. but I keep being true to myself , family & friends .... Hope you are having a wonderful day and a great evening Visit My Blog JohnWheels101 Friendship is a Treasure that can't Be Bought or Sold Feel free to Add Me
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