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What does it take to meet a woman on here?  

rm_viciousadd 41M/39F
20 posts
11/30/2011 2:31 pm
What does it take to meet a woman on here?

My hubby spent too much to be a gold member here and its becoming a waste due to women not responding, fake profiles and bots on the messagers. Its sad that we have been on here for over a month and not met anyone. Is there something wrong with us I know my husband is kind of down about it but we make it up with erotic activities. I know this sounds like a rant but I just putting a shout out there. We are a decient couple who appear and act normal but want to deal with our freaky side which is well overdue.

gottaring 52F
15850 posts
11/30/2011 3:38 pm

 From what I've heard, it takes a few months to really establish any real connections around here- at least with decent people. For couples it might take longer because (again, this is what I've heard) many people advertising as "couples" are actually single men who are seeking a roundabout way into a bisexual experience. In other words, their wives have no idea what's going on. There's also a lot of due diligence on the part of a woman who might consider a couple because she would want assurance that the wife IS actually ok with the situation.

So what does it take? Patience, persistence and a strong instinct for bullshit.

Good luck to you!
When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


gottaring 52F
15850 posts
11/30/2011 7:33 pm
    Quoting  :
For a second, I thought you might be serious. Then I read your profile .
When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


rm_viciousadd 41M/39F
4 posts
11/30/2011 7:37 pm

 Awesome! Thanks everyone really appreciate the advice. Good hunting to you all.


rm_viciousadd 41M/39F
4 posts
12/1/2011 4:55 pm

 Local Discreet Affairs should give gold members the power to kick standard members off this site as long its a good reason and have the admin privilages to give gold status to members who are serious about this site and actually communicate properly and respectively. Since the ratio of couples and men to women are like 20 to 1. This would give more power to hard working men and couples over the profiles of single women who are on here cause they want attention.


2redheads2006 61M/57F
2 posts
12/22/2011 2:06 pm

 It's not just this site, we're on a few others and they're all the same, say hi to 10 couples to get one response. Most people don't even have the decency to give you a polite no.

You're also looking for the elusive single bi female along with half the couples on here, get in line. We've found / played with 2 in 5 yrs.


rm_getindeep69 54M
15 posts
12/28/2011 1:25 pm

 Standards are interested but you have to let them know


MandKim 50M/44F  
18 posts
12/29/2011 5:20 pm

 good luck finding that unicorn in this area. been on here for along time gold member for 4 years and not gonna ever renew again. just not worth the wasted money. you might meet 1 or 2 cpls most the rest are just pic.collectors or one night stands. and well alot of bots on here. and as a gold member you can report them and they are ussually removed within a week.


TwistedViper20XX 42M

10/18/2012 6:26 am

 How do you think us guys feel?! LOL


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