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My experiences here can't be quantified by a simple poll. I've had a lot of luck - some good, some bad. I've made some platonic friends, I've had several long term FWBs, had a toxic affair, and even fell in love once. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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I find this community endlessly fascinating- in exhilarating, comical and at times mortifying ways. While there is a lot (and I mean A LOT) of screening, sorting and relationship-building required, I have found (and continue to find) attractive, thoughtful and sexy connections here. My take-away and advice: stop thinking about Local Discreet Affairs as a "sex site". Approach it as a "friendfinder" site and you will be rewarded.
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Being here for over 16 years, I've seen it (Almost) all. LOL I've have a few hookups, fell in love (Didn't last), made a lot of friends, and had a few lovers. Now I look for FWB, but also very selective. Can actually count my FWB on two fingers, and both not local. So more like naughty sextexters, I guess. I have also developed some close friends that have turned platonic, and that's okay. Used to be a fun place, but now you have to watch who's communicating with you. I mean, let's get real. What 20 something year old hottie wants to hook up with a early 60's single guy for just fun and laughs. Last I looked, nothing in my profile says sugar daddy. ROFLMAO Would love to find someone who wants to do things when we aren't having great sex.
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Been here on and off since 2003. Met a couple of women and have made a few friends - most in the chat room, one or two offline. Not really looking for anyone any more but wont rule anything out if someone interesting comes along. So I read the blogs and make a few posts myself now and then. Until the site starts charging to enter the chatroom or read the blogs then I'll be logging off.
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I have no expectations at all. If I meet someone, fine. If I don't that's fine too. I use Local Discreet Affairs mostly as a time waster. There are to many fake profiles to try and sort out.
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You can find a little bit of everything around here. I say that all the time, like you, that I have no agenda. Just got to enjoy what you can from the ones that are on the same page as you.
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6/25/2020 5:15 pm |
I have gotten exactly what I was hoping for on this site. My only issue is there are not enough hours in a day/week/month/year to spread my legs for all the interested guys. But I am working hard at it!
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6/25/2020 7:41 pm |
BBC HERE FOR YOU
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6/25/2020 8:07 pm |
I am sadly not someone that the women in my area consider attractive enough Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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1 post 6/25/2020 9:17 pm |
I've had No Luck. I've had about 10 women try to scam me out of money. Chat for a couple of weeks, then tell me they aren't currently in my area, but in So. Africa working for Unicef . . . They are about to come home, but shockingly they just had their wallet stolen. Could i help them? They say that they have nobody else to turn too. . . . Yes, almost the same exact story from all the women . . . Then there are women who I guess just want attention. . . They keep sending me flirts but won't respond back to my messages . . .
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6/26/2020 12:04 am |
Well I have had some luck, during the off and on times I have been on this site. Met 2 wives on here, a few girlfriends one when I was 30 and dated a 41 year old for 3 months. Had a x-fiancé who was in her late 30’s when I was 30 as well that lasted a year. Had a fling with a married woman back in 05 when 1 was 25 and she was 49. Also back in 2013 had a fling with another married woman while her husband was in the parking lot. Then another woman in Henderson that was back in 2011.
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I met very less people .. here lot of fake couple profile and single profile.... lot of free cam chat site came.. people not come here... here very less discuss happened...
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Availability is the key to enjoying others here. I am 1 hour drive from a Metropolitan city. In my local area there are a few active women and lots of men, so they can be selective. Hottest prospects are couples that tend to seek each other discretely. My greatest success is meeting men that love to suck cock. Fortunately I am able to host those that have limited availability. I still want to meet a couple that enjoys a close friend for both.
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Fairly new here so still trying to figure out how to navigate through all this. Going in without any expectations.
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Been visiting here for quite a while but don't seem to have got off the start line yet
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Nothing yet !!
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If your not a gold member you can't do anything on here
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This is a place best explored without expectations of any kind, bad news to most men here because they fell for the sites marketing of easy access to sex and get nasty and rude when they find out it’s not true. Not all of us are social skill deficient jerks and losers, take your time you might find someone here worth getting to know. I haven’t met any women here in quite a few years, but it wasn’t like that before many better smartphone options/apps came into being. and now fewer women than ever anywhere near me. Numbers on mainstream sites have dwindled as well, just a sign of the times. Not been worth paying for gold in a long time, though I do from time to time so I can read profiles and keep in touch with a few far away women I have gotten to know over the years by way of participating in groups, blogs and the Advice Lines. That’s really the only reason I’’m still here.
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6/26/2020 12:36 pm |
this site has no luck
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Used to be a good site but now seems to be a hangout for bi/gay men posing as females.Only come on here now to expose the local catfish@Philip Young aged 64 from Tamworth AKA RomanianwifeUK, PennyPenn, star 19 47, muskateera 😉
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Not interested in any one here.To much access to people's opinions,complaints,gender bashing,made up scenarios and the fact that adults won't even show their faces.The sites extremely deceptive so it encourages the same, sadly! Using more than all the road!
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6/27/2020 12:28 am |
So far from my experiences here on Local Discreet Affairs they have mostly been positive and I have had fun with swinger couples and singles. The only downside is that you have to pay for simple features like im or messaging. Also this quarantine isn't helping much but it's a necessary safety move.
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way too many spammers and players that just want to talk about sex on a computer or jack off to pictures.
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Not going in with a lot of expectations, and have made great friends along the way.
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I'm Not here to meet anyone, but good luck if you are. I'm just here to show videos of me masturbating. It's a load of fun.
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