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That's Gay! (A Primer)
That's Gay! (A Primer) Oh, myyyy...this is irritating...same as saying something is a "girlie drink," or shaming men for having human feelings and/or desires, or the shaming of men for treating women who most would appreciate being treated. Sooo...since grown-assed men think this is somehow appropriate and don't seem to know what words mean (see Trump in the dictionary), let me give you a little primer: Your biological sex can be male, female, or intersex, meaning you can have both male and female parts. There is even a man running around with two functional penises. Biology is not as simple as male and female. It really isn't. Your gender can be male, female, transgender male, transgender female, or agender. Usually simply referring to transgender people by their preferred gender is the most appropriate way to refer to them. If they want to talk about being transgender, you should leave that part of the conversation to them. Your sexual orientation is heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, and/or aromantic. Choosing to talk to a woman like she's human isn't gay. It's respectful. To some people, that really actually matters. It matters to me. If you can't handle it, you get absolutely nowhere with me. Taking someone to dinner isn't gay, it's sweet and/or romantic. Cooking and cleaning aren't things that are gay. They are survival skills. Having a tender heart and caring about other people isn't gay. It's called being in touch with the humanity of others. If you are a grown-assed adult male, get this figured out in your head, because when it comes out of your mouth, it just sounds like verbal vomit and makes you seem like an asshat. MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life . Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=} |
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Such words are the product of a judgmental culture. I am sad to know this bigotry still exists in America, even in the 21st century. I had such hopes . . . My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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I had always that thought it was in reference to something in and around the turn of the 20th century.You know straw hats bicycles built for two. Using more than all the road!
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I wish they would listen, I often wonder what men are to do with their feelings? What is wrong with showing kindness?
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I wish they would listen, I often wonder what men are to do with their feelings? What is wrong with showing kindness? If being a kind person is out of your repertoire, maybe don't bother hookers, either. Just go get a damned blow up doll. Sex workers don't need your shit. MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life . Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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Well said. Unfortunately those who need to learn and understand this will likely not see this excellent post. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Well said. Unfortunately those who need to learn and understand this will likely not see this excellent post. MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life . Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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You'd be surprised how often people tell me they rethought things when they've read my blogs. See the one on M & Ms. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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I don't get the usage of "gay" as a negative term for "nice". I understand it as a negative term for "homosexual", even though I don't understand or approve of the bigotry behind that usage. There's also the obsolescent meaning of "happy and carefree", and the now-uncommon use as a name. (My wife used to go to an optometrist named Gay.) In the modern sense, gay shouldn't be used for anything other than as a neutral abbreviation for the five syllable word "homosexual". Besides the word "gay", I don't understand why any kind of nice or necessary behavior would be treated negatively, except maybe in a case where tenderness breaks the mood in a kink scene. I'm nice, and proud of it.
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I don't get the usage of "gay" as a negative term for "nice". I understand it as a negative term for "homosexual", even though I don't understand or approve of the bigotry behind that usage. There's also the obsolescent meaning of "happy and carefree", and the now-uncommon use as a name. (My wife used to go to an optometrist named Gay.) In the modern sense, gay shouldn't be used for anything other than as a neutral abbreviation for the five syllable word "homosexual". Besides the word "gay", I don't understand why any kind of nice or necessary behavior would be treated negatively, except maybe in a case where tenderness breaks the mood in a kink scene. I'm nice, and proud of it. MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life . Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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