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What turns off a woman durring a chat  

Motiv8me456 48M
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8/28/2019 2:47 pm
What turns off a woman durring a chat

Where do w go wrong

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/28/2019 5:45 pm

Insincerity (as they perceive it)


Bigfri1 47M
29 posts
8/28/2019 7:40 pm

 Honesty doesn’t seem to get attention though...


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/28/2019 8:22 pm

 What turns her off of the chat is not something you can control. But I do recommend you don't lag with your responses. And do stay interesting enough to hold her attention.

Every woman is going to be somewhat different, so read her profile.... having questions about what she meant when she said specific things, within her profile, is a good thing.

If you read her profile, and she is a horny fucker... then saying, "Want to fuck" , is acceptable.

Don't show her your dick. Just don't. If she wants to see it, she can go meet with you in person. For one thing, you don't really know if the person is a woman.

Nothing wrong with suggesting a meeting the very same day you first have her attention. Nothing wrong with that at all!
All too often, if you wait, and keep chatting, you can lose her to a more interesting, or more aggressive man. Remember, this is a competition .

Getting her offline to come meet you for 10 minutes , today, is in your best interest.


FresnoWoman 53F
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8/29/2019 10:47 am

 Google is your friend, my dude. You can find out plenty of dos and don'ts if you search online. And despite what Heathen said, same day meetups are not necessary. Soon is best but doesn't have to be the same day. No man missed out on meeting me because he was willing to meet tomorrow or the day after. The ones who insisted on meeting right away were the ones who didn't get to meet me after all.


Heathen_G 65M
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8/29/2019 3:44 pm
    Quoting FresnoWoman:
    Google is your friend, my dude. You can find out plenty of dos and don'ts if you search online. And despite what Heathen said, same day meetups are not necessary. Soon is best but doesn't have to be the same day. No man missed out on meeting me because he was willing to meet tomorrow or the day after. The ones who insisted on meeting right away were the ones who didn't get to meet me after all.
And despite what Heathen said, same day meetups are not necessary. Soon is best but doesn't have to be the same day. .... The same day is best for any male. Meeting the woman in person, for 10 to 20 minutes , is far better than trying to get a hold of her later for a chat, or worse, hoping she will get a hold of you for a chat. .....No, Fresno is very wrong. She doesn't have your best interest in mind.

No man missed out on meeting me because he was willing to meet tomorrow or the day after. .... Well sure. She's almost 50, overweight, so your competition to meet with her is very light, if any at all. .... But if the woman, according to your tastes, is highly desirable, then you DO need to try and meet her the same day, for about 10 minutes.

The ones who insisted on meeting right away were the ones who didn't get to meet me after all. .... Don't let that sway you toward avoiding same day meetings.

You don't have to "Insist". That's being too pushy and you lose her interest.

You "Suggest" and guide her into meeting with you, and always tell her , "Just for 10 to 20 minutes, no pressure". Or something similar to that. ...Getting her to come out and meet you as soon as possible is much better for you. ...Think about it... she lives in your area....get the meeting out of the way as soon as possible and go from a base of reality.


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