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Sexless Marriage
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I have been in a sexless marriage for over 20 yrs. I have had a few affairs and been in a relationship with a much younger woman for 20 yrs. At my age sex is not like it once was, but what I can give she loves and keeps it only for me.
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You don't have to be alone to be lonely. It was like that with my wife. the last 5 yrs we were together, mostly health, but the distance started before that. She passed away 4yrs ago. The week before she died, she asked why I didn't touch her anymore, sadly I had to remind her she told me she didn't want me to. I've been in a relationship with me myself and I for quit sometime now.
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Sexless due to health reasons. So won’t leave as it’s not by choice. So dove into gym. Met a few here in similar straits and we help each other.
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I am in one right now and on the verge of leaving. Tired of not being noticed. yes is hard but no more I want someone that desires me!!!!
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I am in one right now and on the verge of leaving. Tired of not being noticed. yes is hard but no more I want someone that desires me!!!!
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Fortunately I've never been in a sexless relationship; it's not a place I want to go! 
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LOL Understood. Fantasy is great!!!!
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This happens to nearly all of us on here. Usually why we come here. My wife and i wirk opposite shifts so any sex is few and far. I need more as i get older...maybe this site makes me want more.
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I was in what became a sexless, or nearly sexless ltr. We broke up a few years ago. If and when we had sex it was usually really good, but months on end with none. But when we did there was a hint of kink to it sometimes. So that was fun. My current relationship we have sex fairly regularly, but it is sorta boring and predictable. So I still feel as is I'm missing something. My ex would weaponize our past sex acts, If she was in a bitter mood she'd say remember when I did this to you and where..... My response would be I remember when WE DID THAT and it was your idea, yes. Not that she was ever ordered to do anything. So I'm gun shy now to ask to much for kink (which is very mild) in fear of having our fun together weaponized against me down the road.
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Agreed people deserve better.
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actualy i am in
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In one right now that just got worse! Sex with my wifey has been mostly off again for several years! Just because she doesnt care for it...much. ANd always the same ol boring thing when we did it Suffer from Chronic Kidney Disease (did not know what that was until Jan of this year). CKD has led to ED. Started with Viagra but found it caused blinding headaches. Tried Cialis then Levitra only to find out I am sensitive to it and causes sever joint pain! So no ED help for me! Night before last she told me she was happy we no longer had to worry about sex and she was relieved I would not go off and find someone else to have sex with because I cant get an erection! Seriously who would have any interest in an ol broken down man sigh life is just awful right now! 
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After 2 children, My first wife was a "nun".....Nun in the morning and nun at night. When it got to about once every six weeks, I had had enough. We had become roommates instead of lovers. I did not want to live like that. Fairly amicable divorce followed. Second wife screwed my brains out until 4 months after we got married. She then turned it COMPLETELY OFF for a year. I left. 3rd wife was pretty sexual and playful.......she died of lung cancer. Current wife is a once every 3 days type and pretty vanilla but it is OK.
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I was in a sexless marriage. He was fine with it being a companionate deal; I wasn't. So I got a divorce. I don't intend to ever get married again. It's not my thing at all. But I would like to have a significant other again, just as long as we live separately.
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Masturbation and Porn were about the only things that kept me going.
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Well that is a bum thing to say. I wouldn't give up on the old mister yet. You need to do more research on ED there may be help out there. OR maybe you just need someone to help him along.
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I was in a sexless marriage. He was fine with it being a companionate deal; I wasn't. So I got a divorce. I don't intend to ever get married again. It's not my thing at all. But I would like to have a significant other again, just as long as we live separately. 
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6/16/2021 2:34 pm |
good question...i enjoyed reading all the comments/replies
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6/19/2021 2:34 am |
I agree being in a relationship with out affection is horrible. I currently am in a DB situation. And even when there was no effort on their part. After 4 years of getting annoyed I decided to come here. We shall see if it works
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Everyone's got their stories. All sad, but I won't boar you with my sad story. But yes, I was in a sexless marriage. After 6 years of no sex...I left. We were married for 9 years and I was so bitter. Worst 6 years of my life...Truly.
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in a sexless marriage for some time now. she has no libido or sex drive and doesn't enjoy sex. hope it will change soon.
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I was in a sexless marriage and I left it only to find out she was having sex with her boss the last two years we were married. If you going to have your fun at least let me have mine.
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6/27/2021 12:44 pm |
Benn that way for a long time!
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6/28/2021 6:59 am |
In one now. Not sure what to do but it's getting to me. Don't know how it got here but I'm in it and it sucks. Masturbating us good and all but I need some physical skin to skin touching and the warmth of another body. It is what it is
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