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Sexless Marriage
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I'm not in a completely sexless marriage, but it is certainly few and far between. Maybe it's busy schedules and long work days, then having to make dinner every night, that make us too tired for a romp at night during the week. But then something gets in the way of sex on the weekends as well and then another week has passed since we've had sex...and then another, and so on. But then when we eventually do have sex, it's great! It's just not often enough. Sigh.
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"Have you ever been in a sexless relationship?? If so how did you cope?" Yes I have been in a sexless marriage and it is truly frustrating. When the sex started slowing down I accepted it due to the fact that we had new born twins. But the time became longer and longer until it was only 4 times a year, and heaven help me if I was deployed on one of the chosen days. That day was lost, no make-up days. Having been deployed at times from 2 weeks to 9 months those stretches were bad enough, but I remained faithful. The sex stopped altogether after a few years of that. I guess after a while I just got use to no sex, that just pushed me to work longer hours. I would work till I was just too tired to care any longer. Too bad I was the only one being deprived. It wasn't till after I left that I found out the real reason the sex stopped.
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7/4/2021 6:47 am |
Yup, after my hand just got tired, I searched out for a FWB in the same position...took awhile but we clicked and live super similar home lives, best thing I ever did and we became great friends in general. Everyday was exciting again. Things have simmered down over the past year. Hard to find someone you click with but regret I didn't do it sooner!
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7/6/2021 5:39 am |
I lasted 10 years and finally had enough and the crap she did behind my back was amazing but sometimes you got to pull the trigger and get on with life
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Hi, I am in a sexless marriage and it sucks. I am staying for the children and that's it. I am hoping to have some fun now being on Local Discreet Affairs, but it's hard...
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Sounds like a bad time
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I was in a sexless marriage and I left it only to find out she was having sex with her boss the last two years we were married. If you going to have your fun at least let me have mine.  Thank God you left, it would have been a waste of time to stay  What was it you could not provide at home, so she ended up with her boss??? Hope all is working just perfectly for you know  I love pussies and adore nice dicks
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40+ years, more than half of which I have slept on the front porch couch. Now you couldn't get me back into her bedroom. Yes, it SUX! Communication/intimacy isn't there any more. I once cared by now I do not. Plus she has now retired and lays in bed watching movies and eating till she gets up to fix supper after which she sits in the chair and watches more stuff on her computer. I LOVE my kids and grandchildren. That is why I came back after a brief separation. They all more or less sided with her. So damned if I do, damned if I don't. Not everyone who is looking outside of their marriage is an asshole. Some of us just want someone to be with who wants to be with us.
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40+ years, more than half of which I have slept on the front porch couch. Now you couldn't get me back into her bedroom. Yes, it SUX! Communication/intimacy isn't there any more. I once cared by now I do not. Plus she has now retired and lays in bed watching movies and eating till she gets up to fix supper after which she sits in the chair and watches more stuff on her computer. I LOVE my kids and grandchildren. That is why I came back after a brief separation. They all more or less sided with her. So damned if I do, damned if I don't. Not everyone who is looking outside of their marriage is an asshole. Some of us just want someone to be with who wants to be with us. My dad was a skirt chaser from earliest childhood memories. My mother was both a social and physical reclusive. I don't ever remember hugs and kisses, not even when I got sick. Sex was initiated by my wife before the wedding but afterwards it was like pulling teeth. And then came all the health issues, learning she was on meds since 14 for manic depression. Then operation to remove things at 38. That was the beginning of a very quick end. I only remember one time in over 40 yrs of marriage actually having fun sex. Usually she just laid there or only wanted to be finger f*cked. I remember my dad crying on his death bed that all he wanted was to lay with a woman one more time. Little did I know that would be my cry as well.
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40+ years, more than half of which I have slept on the front porch couch. Now you couldn't get me back into her bedroom. Yes, it SUX! Communication/intimacy isn't there any more. I once cared by now I do not. Plus she has now retired and lays in bed watching movies and eating till she gets up to fix supper after which she sits in the chair and watches more stuff on her computer. I LOVE my kids and grandchildren. That is why I came back after a brief separation. They all more or less sided with her. So damned if I do, damned if I don't. Not everyone who is looking outside of their marriage is an asshole. Some of us just want someone to be with who wants to be with us. My dad was a skirt chaser from earliest childhood memories. My mother was both a social and physical reclusive. I don't ever remember hugs and kisses, not even when I got sick. Sex was initiated by my wife before the wedding but afterwards it was like pulling teeth. And then came all the health issues, learning she was on meds since 14 for manic depression. Then operation to remove things at 38. That was the beginning of a very quick end. I only remember one time in over 40 yrs of marriage actually having fun sex. Usually she just laid there or only wanted to be finger f*cked. I remember my dad crying on his death bed that all he wanted was to lay with a woman one more time. Little did I know that would be my cry as well. How can you only go on day for day without love? I love pussies and adore nice dicks
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Hi, I am still happily single. So far always nice friendships or affairs. No lies, no cheating, no injuries, and I can have fun with whoever I want and when I want. If sex wasn't fun anymore: goodbye, and have a good life! And no legacy sneaks with whom I have to live suspiciously. Feels good to me. Nachrichten an mich>> Privater Briefkasten Mailbox
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I have been in a sexless marriage for about 6 yrs. Was great for 50 years, she didn't want any after that but it seemed like I needed more. Old married guy as I am can't seem to find any MF. happily married still but need some sexual satisfaction thats not done by my self. hehe
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Masturbation and Porn were about the only things that kept me going.
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I agree being in a relationship with out affection is horrible. I currently am in a DB situation. And even when there was no effort on their part. After 4 years of getting annoyed I decided to come here. We shall see if it works
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Everyone's got their stories. All sad, but I won't boar you with my sad story. But yes, I was in a sexless marriage. After 6 years of no sex...I left. We were married for 9 years and I was so bitter. Worst 6 years of my life...Truly.
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in a sexless marriage for some time now. she has no libido or sex drive and doesn't enjoy sex. hope it will change soon.
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Oh yes so true,while married had to end up pleasuring myself as he said he was too tired,only after he retired early i found out why,could not compete with his many young PA's over the years but by time i found out i felt nothing for him by then
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Good for you. I hope you find happiness.
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Benn that way for a long time!
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In one now. Not sure what to do but it's getting to me. Don't know how it got here but I'm in it and it sucks. Masturbating us good and all but I need some physical skin to skin touching and the warmth of another body. It is what it is
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I'm not in a completely sexless marriage, but it is certainly few and far between. Maybe it's busy schedules and long work days, then having to make dinner every night, that make us too tired for a romp at night during the week. But then something gets in the way of sex on the weekends as well and then another week has passed since we've had sex...and then another, and so on. But then when we eventually do have sex, it's great! It's just not often enough. Sigh.
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"Have you ever been in a sexless relationship?? If so how did you cope?" Yes I have been in a sexless marriage and it is truly frustrating. When the sex started slowing down I accepted it due to the fact that we had new born twins. But the time became longer and longer until it was only 4 times a year, and heaven help me if I was deployed on one of the chosen days. That day was lost, no make-up days. Having been deployed at times from 2 weeks to 9 months those stretches were bad enough, but I remained faithful. The sex stopped altogether after a few years of that. I guess after a while I just got use to no sex, that just pushed me to work longer hours. I would work till I was just too tired to care any longer. Too bad I was the only one being deprived. It wasn't till after I left that I found out the real reason the sex stopped.
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Yup, after my hand just got tired, I searched out for a FWB in the same position...took awhile but we clicked and live super similar home lives, best thing I ever did and we became great friends in general. Everyday was exciting again. Things have simmered down over the past year. Hard to find someone you click with but regret I didn't do it sooner!
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I lasted 10 years and finally had enough and the crap she did behind my back was amazing but sometimes you got to pull the trigger and get on with life
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Hi, I am in a sexless marriage and it sucks. I am staying for the children and that's it. I am hoping to have some fun now being on Local Discreet Affairs, but it's hard...
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