When are you be considered to be GAY?

I don't know if i am Bi/gay or straight... I consider myself straight... I can only see myself loving woman, holding, kissing walking loving whatever...,,, but here is my confusion: i love getting blowjobs and anal, yes i like my ass getting slammed. Does that make me gay???? If Pam Anderson, Halle berry, Eva Longoria, Jessica Alba, Kobe tai, Beyonce, and Jessica Simpson all had STRAP ONS and for each day of the week i got banged, fingered, sucked and fucked by each one of them would i be GAY? KINKY? or LUCKY? Would i be BI because i had regular sex with them, but then i got pleasure from them by fingering my ass? Does the physical part of sex make you gay or the emotional? Unfortunately it is a lot easier finding a guy that will give me a great BJ than a woman, also to find a woman to use a strap-on On me and not think i was gay is hard to find too. How come Football, Pro Wrestling, Ultimate Fighting, BasketBall, Male Masseurs, And even Doctors(Testicle/Prostate Checks) Can Seperate The physical and still be considered straight? All the slapping of asses, rubbing/wresting showering, and you know they get kinky with the menagetois, all sounds like gay action,,,,, Here is my ending: If guys like to fuck, and i like getting fucked, and as long as there isn't any emotions traded just good fucking or sucking does that make me gay? Is Sex just Sex? If you haven't had your prostate rubbed properly by a finger or a dildo/cock, or haven't had an ultimate cum in the mouth, tickle your sack, finger your ass blowJob, then you just haven't had extreme pleasure, you just think you you have,,, and maybe you said you tried it but you didn't like it so you are not gay, well i have had sex with many women also, and if you can say something like that then you did't have it done to you properely... Sex is suppose to be nasty other wise you are just trying to make babies and thats no fun... Its like eating PrimeRib everyday for the rest of your like, Sure it's great, but if you really had prime rib everyday after a year chicken would look real good and better for your prostate...