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Just some random thoughts about Local Discreet Affairs and what it takes to get laid.
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Interesting Actions...
Posted:Jun 16, 2015 6:06 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2015 5:32 pm
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I always find it interesting, straight guys that check us out. For instance - a 24 year old guy has been checking out my profile for months now. I finally decided to see if he was interested, so I sent him a message. The reply I received was very short..."NO". Now I'm fine with that - I don't mind a "no". I've said the same to plenty of people. But what I find is really fascinating is that it took about thirty times of checking out my videos and profile for him to make that decision. Guys - seriously - getting a blowjob or even fucking a guy doesn't make you gay or even less of a man. If you're gay - you'll know it - you find that you're actually in love with the guy. You don't want to be away from him. Fucking is just that...fucking. Sometimes we just need to get the rocks off.
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Thoughts on...Straight men getting sucked off by guys.
Posted:May 19, 2015 3:47 pm
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2015 6:10 pm
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You know it won't kill you. Just because a guy sucks your cock - this doesn't make you "gay". Now if you suck the guy's cock and then beg to be fucked by him - you might want to re-think things. Getting your rocks off is completely natural - and just so you know, we actually enjoy it - so you'd probably get the best blow job of your life. Why waste time fucking your fist when a warm, wet mouth is waiting.

I personally believe that it doesn't make a difference - especially when you're really just looking to have fun. You don't have to marry the guy after.

Oh, and we like to swallow. None of this pulling out and jerking you off til you cum on our cheek or chin. Bury the rod deep and you won't be disappointed.
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Thoughts on...Straight men getting sucked off by guys.
Posted:May 19, 2015 3:46 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 10:58 pm
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You know it won't kill you. Just because a guy sucks your cock - this doesn't make you "gay". Now if you suck the guy's cock and then beg to be fucked by him - you might want to re-think things. Getting your rocks off is completely natural - and just so you know, we actually enjoy it - so you'd probably get the best blow job of your life. Why waste time fucking your fist when a warm, wet mouth is waiting.

I personally believe that it doesn't make a difference - especially when you're really just looking to have fun. You don't have to marry the guy after.

Oh, and we like to swallow. None of this pulling out and jerking you off til you cum on our cheek or chin. Bury the rod deep and you won't be disappointed.
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Summer.
Posted:May 5, 2010 3:09 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 10:58 pm
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Summer is back. Men in shorts, lawn boys, and most of all getting to watch the guys from the local greenhouses working with their crews. Even if just for the views themselves...this is by far my favorite time of the year.
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Once again...manners when watching Cams
Posted:Mar 28, 2010 4:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2010 8:15 am
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Getting to watch someone working their cock on a cam is a privilege. If you get "buffered", take the hint...especially if you get "buffered" more than once. I'm pretty okay with anyone watching me on cam - however - if you don't have your profile turned on, you will be blocked. If you decide to become a director and ask for me to spread my ass, or blow a load on command - you will be blocked.

I don't mind when someone sends me a compliment via messenger - but realize that I RARELY will type via messenger if I'm working on my cock. I hate typing one handed and it "breaks the mood".

So be polite when you're watching. Hell, offer to let me watch yours....grin. I love watching a guy working his cock while I'm working mine and know that he's watching me.

Cheers, have fun - and work your dick...don't be one.
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Pictures.
Posted:Mar 1, 2010 2:01 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2015 3:47 pm
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I realize that in this little world of hooking up - discretion is important. However, that being said - pictures are an important exchange. Attraction is based on visual - its human nature. I'm not saying that you need to have a full album or two - or even that you need to post it online, but at least have something available to trade with. Unless you're planning on wearing a brown bag over your head while we're hooking up - I'm going to see your face. And if its that you're afraid of: "I might work with you" or "you might know my wife/girlfriend/boyfriend" - think about the idea that if you're on here and I'm on here - then there's probably a very good chance that we're looking for the same thing.

Really guys - 2010, I'd think that with even a cell phone now days taking pictures that are a 100x better than anything taken with a point and shoot a few years ago - you'd be able to have a picture to exchange.
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New Year
Posted:Jan 25, 2010 2:15 am
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2010 1:50 am
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Welcome to 2010 - wasn't this the year we make contact? So should you. I'm open for meeting up when our schedules connect. Feel free to contact on here. Even standards can email. Look me up - you won't regret it.
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Creative hooking up...
Posted:Dec 19, 2009 5:26 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 10:58 pm
3603 Views

We all know the drill: You talk for a little while, find out that you're compatible (at least for the moment..lol), start to flesh out who gets who's cock, then it comes down to where. That's what the major pitfall of this site is - you have husbands and boyfriends looking to get what their girlfriend/wives won't do. But they live with their significant other so their place is out. You don't like alone either - so you're place is out. So where do you take advantage of your new found "friend"?

With guys - it is a little easier. You just have to find a place fairly private that you can whip your cock out and get down to business. Not always the ideal situation - but it works. Hell, I've sucked guys off in bathrooms at the mall, front seats of cars in parking lots, on trails in parks, I even got fucked by a hung stud in an alley behind a church.

Sometimes all it takes is a little creativity and willingness to take a chance.
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Distance - How far is too far?
Posted:Nov 12, 2009 2:39 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 10:58 pm
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First of all - observation: Most of the damn hot people on here are so damn far away (I can't say all - you guys know who you are...grin). So how far is too far to travel?

Not that I would do it constantly - but I once traveled from Omaha to St Joe MO to hook up with a VERY hot guy from further south. I'd say that it was worth it. 2 hours in a car - one hour of good ole fashioned fucking - and 2 hours back. I'd have to say that I wouldn't do that for just anyone...but you never know.

I guess you could cut the distance with a c2c session - but I tend to find them a little tedious with all the typing and frustrating because you can't feel the other person. Tactile responsiveness has always been a HUGE turn on for me.

There is another guy though - from the KC area - who I've cammed with and talked with a bit, that I'd love to meet up with - and would be willing to drive for. Perhaps we can come up with a nice place between us.

So how about you? How far would you be willing to travel and why.
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Meeting Up
Posted:Oct 20, 2009 3:00 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2015 3:48 pm
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Games games games. Why does it always come down to that. Don't get me wrong - I have met up with a couple of very hot guys on here (You know who you are...grin). But I've been on here for nearly a year and have only met a couple of people. There is the "hosting" problem - no one ever seems to be able to (including me - so I can at least understand that). But then you have the ones that string you along, text you back an forth, even send pics via texts - but never follow through. Or my favorite - the "Come pick me up - but throw me a text before you get there." then give you a wrong number. I'll chalk that one up to the stupidity of youth (he was 23). Oh well, I guess the game players are better than the ones that post hot pictures of people other than themselves. LOL. I especially love the ones that say they're cut - but post a picture of an uncut cock. Very very classic. So - guys - grow a pair.
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Discretion
Posted:Sep 15, 2009 3:10 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2015 3:57 pm
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Discretion is one of those things that apparently needs to be defined:

A quick text when given a number to check and see if a person is available to talk using a coded message = Discretion.
Continued texting explicit messages after a person has replied "Can't talk" or "Busy" = not

Playing with someone, having fun and enjoying a possible second or third meeting = Discretion
Playing with someone then letting several people know what a good fuck they were and asking said person several times if your friends can join next time because they loved what they heard about you = not

Getting a person's picture and checking it out from time to time - or using it to decide on meeting up = Discretion
Getting a person's picture and sending it to all your friends = not

Its really simple folks...If a person is saying they need discretion - there is a reason for it. Showing up at a person's house unannounced because you just want to get your rocks off is probably not the way to show that. Continuous text messages after a person has said "Really busy - can't talk" again - not the way to show it.

Courtesy, really is what its all about. Think about what you require and just give back the same. Not rocket science.
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Webcam Etiquette
Posted:Aug 10, 2009 3:41 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2015 3:56 pm
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When you're watching a webcam of someone, there are a few simple rules that one should abide by.

1. When making a request - remember that it is a REQUEST. Getting the same "Show me that ass" paged 13 times is rude.
2. Its a privilege that you're allowed to watch someone on cam - remember that. If they aren't chatting or don't seem to want to - go with it.
3. When you're grading the cam - think before you hit the mouse click. If you don't like what you see - close the cam. Don't deliver a "2" and keep watching. Apparently you don't like what you see - so logic dictates you stop watching.
4. Once again always remember that you're given the PRIVILEGE of watching the cam. If someone clicks you off. Don't keep trying to watch the cam. There's a reason why they decided not to let you watch.
5. For those of you without pictures on your profiles - it is especially important that you follow the above rules. It takes nothing these days to get a picture posted - hell nearly every cell phone has a camera, take a damn picture already. It doesn't have to be of your face - that can be reserved for when you decide to meet up with someone. But it is especially irritating to get demands made for "More light", "Show me your ass", "Finger that hole" from someone who doesn't even take the time to show a picture of at least their own junk.

So - next time you're watching...remember the above. Sit back, grab your favorite plaything (mine happens to be attached right below my waist) and enjoy the show.
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Being Polite with Emails
Posted:Jul 21, 2009 3:46 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2015 3:56 pm
3649 Views

Guys - when you receive an email from another guy and are not interested - a simple email back with a "No thanks - not into guys." is polite. Treat the request as a compliment - not only are you hot to the opposite sex - but guys find you hot too. There are a lot of "straight" guys on here that enjoy getting head from anyone - including another guy. This is why we throw that request/compliment - it has nothing to do with a threat to your masculinity - it has everything to do with that juicy piece of meat dangling between your legs. So...take no offence - politely decline the offer - and go about your business. Good luck and good hunting.
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