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if you think about it being over...then its over! 12/28/2003
Peole...if you think about you and your partner not being
together, then go tell them because the relationship is
all ready over! There is no point of wasting time that could
be spent on finding the "right" partner for
you, so do it!
0 Comments, 13 Views,
89 Votes
,4.89 Score
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Obvious 12/26/2003
It?s kind of weird but I always seem to know when things start
to go downward in a relationship. And from what I have seen,
it is very obvious and I have predicted breakups for me and
people I know, pretty much down to the exact day. It seems
the harder I try, the worse I make it when I do notice things
going wrong. I first notice it in her voice and the way she
talks to me. She seems ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
58 Votes
,8.94 Score
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the best way to break up a long relationship 12/25/2003
Is there any good way to break up with somebody that you've
been with for a long time without hurting there feelings?
What would be the best way to do this gently?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
55 Votes
,6.62 Score
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Why Is It So Hard To Do? 12/23/2003
Can anyone tell me why breaking up is so hard to do? Is there
any good advice for healing and can you tell me how to move
on and be happy? I have been so badly burned in this relationship
that I wonder if I will ever be able to fully love and trust
again. Are there other aching souls on here that can relate
to me? I appreciate any tips or advice and words of encouragement.
0 Comments, 10 Views,
60 Votes
,7.51 Score
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Why don't guy's tell the truth if they are in love...... 12/20/2003
I have been in a wonderful relationship for 8 years and he
was the first guy I had ever loved or cared about.. Well I
knew he wasn't hiself one day so I asked him if he has
cheated on me and he wouldnt answer me all he would do is ask
a question what if I did what would you do or say.... well
he didnt know how much I loved him and we talked and made up
and he told me why he did it... and ...
1 Comments, 155 Views,
32 Votes
,1.83 Score
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how do you get over someone 12/19/2003
After being with a man I had met here on Local Discreet Affairs he decided to tell
me that was and always had been a just a good fuck.Not that
I ever expected an I love you or anything like that from him
but I do have feeling for him.Why anyone continue seeing
someone several times a month for two years and then end
it by telling them that.
We run into each other several times a week going ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
77 Votes
,7.99 Score
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What to do when ones heart is on the line 12/19/2003
I have been with this amazing girl on and off for over 2 years
now. There are times in the relationship that she becomes
very distant and dosent want me around. She tells me she
needs time to figure out what she needs, but yet dosent want
me to go completly. It seems as if I am her safety net and someone
to fall back on. I love her dearly and this is driving me nuts.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
28 Votes
,7.66 Score
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Breaking uP 12/17/2003
To break up....juz ignore and I MEAN IGNORE the girl until
she gets the idea, she will try all sorts of ways and means
to get u backa and of course that includes TEARs, but never
give in and even when she contemplates suicide and threatens
to die or whatsoever, never give in....Remember once u
give in, u r DEAD...jus like the prey in the web, u can never
get out..
0 Comments, 1 Views,
24 Votes
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Help 12/16/2003
My girlfriend of 1 1/2 years got high on mushrooms and had
a threesome with the older married couple across the street.
The next day I found out about it and asked her about it. she
told me that they her. To make a long story short the
truth is it was all her idea. when I confronted her with the
real version she confessed to everything, and that the
was a lie and she said that she would ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
52 Votes
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ever move on 12/15/2003
i moved here from az after i borke u pwith my gf and now she
is always on my mind i can't stop thinking about her
i think i love her what should i do
0 Comments, 186 Views,
31 Votes
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should i stay or should i go?? 12/15/2003
a friend of mind had the recent problem
<br>
his gf had an affair with her ex after she is with him. and
she told him about it. of course my friend was pissed, but
since he really loves the girl and so he doesn;t want to leave
her like this. but then he is also pissed that he think he
should do something to the guy and/or to the girl to show
them a lesson.
<br>
also, ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
55 Votes
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how to deal with all the cheaters. 12/15/2003
note: i read this from a email forwarding, but i don't
know the source, and since it was in different language,
i will try to translate as good as possible.
<br>
the husband had always suspected that his wife is cheating
on him, being younger than him for 6 years, and with such
an attractive body and gorgous face everyone must be interested
in her.
<br>
also, she is ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
55 Votes
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So this is how it is... 12/15/2003
So this is how it is....
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This fear, hurt, sorrow and pain
Cuts through me like a hurricane
Lost to me now, she goes away
Such anguish I refuse to display
<br>
It is better to have love and lost
Someone once proclaimed
They never counted the cost
Of such internal pain
<br>
Sleepless nights and torturous days
Every morning awakening with a ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Iz it possible to maintain a friendship with your ex? 12/13/2003
Wow, what does one say about breaking up? It's certainly
not an easy thing to do when you love someone. I'm going
thru it right now myself. I find that trying to maintain
a decent relationship in a small town iz not an easy thing
to do. Well it's even harder when there are so many feelings
still attached to the broken relationship. Example my
ex and I have (not together) but our kidz ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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HOW? 12/12/2003
I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now. He lives
5 hours away and I've done everything for him. I heard
a rumor from someone that he has a girlfriend and is expecting
a baby. He denies the girlfriend part, but does not deny
the baby. I don't know what to believe. I love him to
death, but I don't want to be used. I don't know
anymore.
2 Comments, 170 Views,
48 Votes
,5.31 Score
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Use the walk. 12/8/2003
If you're trying to break up with someone, then try
taking them for a walk. Tell them that we're going for
a walk. And while you're starting off your walk with
them, tell them that this walk might not turn out to be that
pleasant. Them start to explain how it's not working
out for you. And then ask them do they know where this is going.
The worst should be over by this point. But if it's ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
36 Votes
,4.96 Score
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what to do to get noticed? 12/8/2003
Wahts going on? A quick question. What extra can you do to
ge noticed on Local Discreet Affairs besides upgrading? Any suggestions if
so please let me know
0 Comments, 2 Views,
48 Votes
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I miss you 12/7/2003
Toon the shelf
I wince and think of spring
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Chimes and bells fill the season
as I listen for your laugh
<br>
skies and life dance a difficult waltz
such brilliant blues and chilly winter rains
nervous hands and a heart stopping glance my friend,
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As every door opens
I hope that it brings your smile
<br>
With ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
38 Votes
,7.55 Score
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More Internet Etiquette 12/3/2003
I can empathize with the writer's disillusionment
upon finding someone lied to them after a few encounters.
Sounds like the person who lied enjoyed the meetings, but
is using Local Discreet Affairs as it was intended...to expand their sexual
possibilities. The real problem appears that the person
left behind was looking for a relationship. Frankly, I'm
stunned by the profiles I've seen where it reads "Looking ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
31 Votes
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lust or love 12/2/2003
when you are all loved up and sex is great you think you can
survive anything that good ol life gets in the way and weakness
show sex does not solve everything yes it helps the lust
starts to dwindle and sex becomes a litle regulated the
same fantasties become not so good any more finding that
balance is hard do you swing do you avoid hard swap or occasional
swap like every thing else when ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
67 Votes
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What The Hell? 12/2/2003
I have always had terrible luck when it comes to guys. I cannot
escape it...This last guy I was dating, he broke up with
me last week because he was cheating on me. He even told her
about me! He had started dating her a few days before he dumped
me. That just sucks! I don't know what it is, but this
always happens to me. There is a part of me that misses him,
and a part of me that wants to ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
38 Votes
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Turning the chapter 12/1/2003
I'm 30 years old, have a great job, and live a great life.But
I have one problem. I can't seem to get it through my
ex-fiancee's head that our relationship is over!!!
Actually it's been over for over 2 years sexually!!
When I first met her things were okay. I even took in her elementary
school . I took them both into my place and paid each and
every major bill of our household. About a year ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
17 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Why would he hurt me 12/1/2003
I met this guy in 1999 and it was like love at first sight.He
was everything a girl could want.Fine, sweet, and packing
a bunch of meat.I was so and love and he said he was to. All
a sudden I started hearing rumors of other girls, me being
me I can't believe until I see. Why confront him.It
was christmas and he brought me an engagement ring, something
in my mind clicked and said I am not ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
31 Votes
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Everyone is doing it!!!!! 11/30/2003
Well it seems that the mentality of people today is sure
i'll get married if i don't like it i'll just
get a Divorce. People really need to give their relationships
a little more thought and COMMUNICATE!!!!! But today most
people hold in their anger or let it out to that friend of
the oppisite sex and then they wind up getting together
and that makes things worse!
<br>
If you ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
25 Votes
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Breaking because of Bipolar Mood Disorder. 11/28/2003
I experienced a love that at 46 years of age I have never experienced
before, with my last boyfriend. Our relationship sort
of fell together, but it grew and grew. We didn't live
together, but saw as much of each other as we could. after
nearly 3 years we were both amazed at times when we just held
our forheads together gazing into each other's eyes
and almost orgasmed at the intesity, we ...
1 Comments, 18 Views,
19 Votes
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RE: Why is it? 11/27/2003
You sound like what I went through. Met this really great
guy, totally connected on the cerebral level, like cosmic
twins. But we somehow didn't get very far because he's
considering a new job and having tough luck dealing with
the various women in his life. Its hard to accept such bad
timing but ultimately everything happens for a reason.
Its ok to feel sorry, the trick is not to dwell on ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
3 Votes
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Breaking up, good or bad? 11/27/2003
Breaking up! is it good or bad i want to know because you cant
win either way can you? if you`v ad enough of the relationship
and call it of she`s in te nut house over it and if she breaks
up then its you in the mad house so it`s good and bad just try
and be on the good end of it
0 Comments, 14 Views,
4 Votes
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love gone sour 11/27/2003
Love Gone Sour
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What happened to the innocence?
To the conversations that made sense?
What happened to happy sensations?
All replaced with fucking expectations.
What happened to long walks hand in hand,
Gasping for air in between making out in the sand.
Love and friendship replaced by lies, jealousy, and hate.
A once opened gate,
Is now shut to love gone sour.
...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
12 Votes
,4.21 Score
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Easy Breakup 11/27/2003
If you don't know if you have enough reasons to break
up with your significant other, then don't worry about
all the things that you have gone through with them, add
up all the negatives and you shouldn't have a problem.
0 Comments, 9 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Too Many Other Fish In The Sea!!! 11/24/2003
After undergoing a recent separation myself and suffering
much pain associated with it, I thought what better article
to write but one that deals with separation. The pain of
a separation is real, nonetheless, but as bad as it may seem,
it does pass. Often we spend years in unhappy situations
because I believe we get too comfortable. Change is not
always pleasant but can sometimes be for ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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